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Has anyone said that John is always giving Brennan Lee Mulligan energy?

Appreciate y’all talking about biphobia again. Bi guy here who definitely feels more comfortable in queer spaces now with my current bf compared to when I was with my ex-gf. Not sure if that’s internalized or externalized biphobia. Also the classic “ah yes all bi people must prefer men” is so eye roll inducing.

Everyone looks extra great!

The parsley story is very on brand and a great example!

Mama mia is one of my favorite movies

🤍🤍🤍

My partner and I have different bedtimes. He's an early bird, I'm a night owl. He snores, I'm a light sleeper. I'm a bit more of a worrier. We have very similar values, want the same lifestyle and both love travelling. We agree on kids and want a close relationship. Hes a kind person. The snoring annoys me but the bigger stuff matters way more.

obsessed with John and Phantom holding hands around 6:00

the subtitles on this are hilariously wrong -- e.g. "human" instead of "cumin" -- but if I was more hard of hearing it'd be a problem

QUESTION: 🙋‍♂️ why’s the TALKING sound only in my LEFT EAR, but the MUSIC sound is still in BOTH of my ears…………………………? That’s doesn’t make SENSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!¡ 😅❤

Sketches are how I was first introduced to you guys and your channel. I vote for doing sketches again. I think that'll even bring in new viewership

When Allison said anticipation anxiety, it was a real AH HA moment for me… always learning with these two 📚

ghosts

love you two, thanks for sticking together💗

Mamma mia here we go again is the greatest film of its decade

Mamma mia was 100% a global phenomenon - and Mamma Mia 2 Here we go again is the BEST

Wild timing, today my partner and I discussed what taking a break would look like due to one single (big) compatibility issue congrats on your parsley!

In my marriage the biggest struggle is that I’m from Jewish suburbs and he’s from rural Iowa. Sometimes finding common ground is simply incomprehensible. He even came out as trans after we got married- way easier than trying to explain Jewish sleep away camp

Love this for you guys

Low ponytail, scrunchie

I like the couples advice. I wonder if the Jewish vs Catholic thing will be more contentious if kids are involved.

mamma mia here we go again was a revelation.

parsley would be a dealbreaker for me, can't stand it (flat or curly) lollll

So proud of you both ❤️❤️❤️

Is it realistic to buy your own pottery wheel?

This video will do better than others bc I’ve been busy and this was about relationships which are interesting to me!!

9:26 I rented a movie theater for my 40th birthday to watch Mamma Mia with all my friends and family. You either get it or you don't! 🇬🇷

it’s so funny i literally thought about disliking parsley as a dealbreaker before 😂 i feel very seen right now

otro día otra coronación de gloria 🇦🇷 viva el chimichurri

How dare you, John! My wife is Greek!

I agree with Gabe’s ex about the bedtime thing!

As someone with serious ARFID, food differences are a big bummer, I always feel bad that my partner and I can't really share food or make the same meals together, though we make it work. It's really hurtful when people say stuff like "Oh I could NEVER be with someone who didn't like all kinds of food", like well sure you could, you can't control who you like lol (not saying you said that lol)

the herbs thing would be big for me 😕

All that guff about disliking herbs and her preferred parsley is flat??? That’s the worst one lol Rosemary tastes like pine trees in the most delightful way

I totally agree with John on Mama Mia. Sorry Allison

4:16 This part got me. Love it😊😊😊

Knowing whats important to you is key. When husband and i first started dating we would try to get each other gifts, but thankfully we figured out that neither of us like giving or receiving gifts, so we just dropped it. Ive had past partners make me feel bad for having a hard time coming up with good gifts or with not appearing grateful enough. It was such a relief to not have to perform that relationship ritual. Also i like that we have different hobbies and he can go do his own thing. But it was really important to me that we share similar politics and world view.

My partner and I are so similar and have so many of the same key life experiences that it was a little weird and we started a list when we first dated. This is the first relationship where someone "just gets me" and it's really cool. But also we have enough differences that we compliment each other and fill in each other's weak points. Probably our biggest pain point is that he's a "you have to tell me explicitly or I won't know" type of Autistic and I'm a "constantly on edge and looking out for subtle cues because I miss them all the time" type of Autistic. This can lead to me thinking something is wrong when it isn't and it can lead to him not realising something is wrong when it is. The solution is obviously just communication but we're also anxious people so sometimes things can spiral a bit before it's resolved.

Okay I’m totally with Allison on the parsley question. Curly leaf parsley is flavorless, contributes nothing to the dish, and is a sensory nightmare to eat. My hottest take about curly leaf parsley is that it is tacky.

The way that John talks about herbs like… it just makes so much sense that he’s Alison’s husband… destiny

Me and my partner are happy together. We agree on some things and on other we both compromise one way or another. I got cheated on my previous relationship after getting married, it scarred me and it took several years of therapy to feel better. When I started my present relationship, my main thing was that I wanted us to be honest and communicate with each other. I am easy going and flexible with most things, so as long as we are communicating, I did not have any issues in changing certain behaviors or what food I would cook. This is why I mentioned that we are both happy, not sure if necessarily compatible, but we both definitely choose to be with each other :) And also, we just had a baby too, so there is a whole new dynamic!

I just put my finger on it! Is John related to Brennan Lee Mulligan? Appearance, vibe, even voice are eerily similar. Love you guys!

The way that the captions spelled "gourmand" gave me a teaspon (nay, a soupçon) of mirth

I’m so glad that John figured out his and Alison’s parsley situation, I was really worried for a moment there. 12:57-I feel like ‘privacy and secrecy’ and two different things. Privacy feels like ‘ this information is very personal and I wanna keep it close to the chest’ and secrecy feels like information that someone is actively working to keep under wraps. I feel like in a healthy relationship, baring things like surprises and maybe a few other exceptions that I can’t think of but right now, there shouldn’t be room in a relationship for secrets.

Another amazing episode :)

The type of life and type of relationship part was spot on!

Best advice I’ve heard for compatibility is to think of the persons most annoying trait, and if you can live with that, you’re compatible 😂

Yeeeees for Sketches!!!

John is so funny

“i’ve been giving real advice now for years” -allison raskin 2024